Times of pandemic hits us hard especially our mental health!
Why staying away from toxic people is totally good for you and for them, you say?
Since we are into the pandemic, we tend to not go out often hence spending more time indoors, at home, away from the crowd, and being online
most of the time so we are glued to our smartphones or social media sites, right?
And since we are bombarded with our newsfeeds (whatever SNS you are into)with all the rants, friends updated statuses of never-ending insults
and no names attacks (the blind item attacks – who was that her talking to on that post?)
As well as those inspiring posts of motivation, positivity, gratitude!
You are susceptible to online depression.
But it doesn’t have to be that way!
Yes, there is a way out!
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100% of the response depends on you!
You just have to choose people to follow or ignore or block or avoid being notified by those people giving all the negative vibes!
Minimize your association with them, not exactly avoid but minimize!
The People to Follow List
- Oozing with positivity but with reality perspectives
- Entrepreneurs who share the same views or values people perspectives without judging
- People who are working on their dreams and have the same level of drive as you
- People who have been there and produce results already
When you decide to minimize your association with them, you are not helping just yourself but totally helping them as well!
And choosing who you want to spend time with, or you may want to be alone, which makes more works to accomplish.
Or just be with close family, you may not want to go out without them and more family bonding time
the more beneficial it is to you and your family.
Home is the most relaxing, liberating place in this pandemic!
Okay, back to the topic…
They might question why you are not into so much interaction with them anymore.
Might ask themselves the question, what did I do wrong?
And when that happens, they change for the good which is both beneficial for you both!
Why?
Their way of life will change and change will create good results!
So, the next time you encounter people with toxic attitudes, stay away for a while!
This topic is really for me. Toxic people will only add stress in our life.
Wowww this is great blog i ever seen. This will be helpful sa mga tao para mapalayo sa depression. Thanks for sharing this Ms. Ann ?❤️
Yes po, As long as you can keep the toxic people away from your matters and from entering your mind, you can use the positivity energy around you to impel you to your destination.
i agree. sometimes we need to stay away with toxic people. we are still facing challenges this year and it will be healthy if we only surround ourselves with positive vibes.
Sometimes I feel like I’m the toxic one, but sometimes I think I’m not that toxic, only about some topics, such as about the celeb I don’t like, or when talking to people I feel uncomfortable… I’m learning to be a better person everyday, and I have to live in harmony with some toxic people (in my opinion).
definitely! during the pandemic, i’ve filled my newsfeed with watercolour paintings posts and food because I don’t want to read too many rantings or whatever
Couldn’t agree more! I learned to cut ties with toxic people from my life because they cause my anxieties.
Toxic people will always be around, it’s hard to get rid of them especially when you have to deal with these people everyday.. focus on yourself, stay positive and define your boundaries.. 🙂
Been here, done everything that you’ve listed.. but what if the toxicity is inside the home though? My only escape from the toxicity of a couple of people here in my house is by turning up the volume of my speakers and listening to japanese rap songs or lofi… 🙂
I once muted some people who are so toxic online and in real life on all my social media accounts na connected kami. It did help keep me sane. Less toxic people around on my feed, the better ?
yes alamo, pagod ka na and stressed sa araw araw. tapos me mga toxic pa na tao.. dadagdag pa sa bigat ng feelings mo ano? stay away na lang para kahit papano makapahinga din yung utak mo and puso.